Well I never got in touch with Mr asshole. I decided to just let it be a lesson learned. I just hope karma comes back to bite him where it hurts. No I have not worked out on that dame dance game thing. Probably will be selling it at a garage sale next year. LOL. Nothin to report. Lookin for a new layout so if anyone knows where i could find one or know of anyone who makes em (for a small fee of course, i dont mind paying) that would be nice.

I trust people entirely too much. My faith in humankind is ridiculous. Just a lil advice to you guys. If you ever thought of allowing a friend of yours get anything in your name, do your self a favor and slap yourself in the face.

That had to be the most stupid thing I could have ever done because now I'm paying for it, literally. My dumbass allowed this so called friend to get a phone in my name once he convinced me that he really needed one and that he would definately pay the bill ontime. I mean, why would someone invest 200 dollars in a phone if they weren't going to pay the bill right?

So I get the first bill which totaled up to just over 300 dollars(not including my bill). I call him up 2 weeks before the bill is due and he reassures me that he will pay the bill. I call him up again a day before the bill is due and he tells me that he gets paid that evening and that he will pay the bill the next day. Cutting it kinda close aren't we? But I'm cool just as long as it gets paid. After all , I intend to change over responsiblity of the line to him once the bill is taken care of. Much to my dismay, I get a text message from T-mobile 6 days later telling me my bill is overdue. Surely this must be some mistake right? I call him up and he tells me that he paid the bill on the following Tuesday (which would make it 3 days late) So I call T-mobile and they tell me that they have no record of him paying anything. So I call him back angry, but he stands firm and reassures me that he paid the bill. I asked him to get the reciept so we can call T-mobile with the conformation #. He agrees to call me as soon as he gets home.

I wait....................................................................................finally about 11:00 that night I call, no answer. So now I'm pissed. I blow his little sidekick up all nite long and all next morning to no avail. I'm sick. Why is he avoiding me. If he paid the bill, then he has no reason to hide, right? By noon the next day I am fully set on allowing someone else to take over the phone and take this young man to small claims court. I go and search for his information on a background search database so that I would have in case I did want to go ahead a file a claim. 2 days later I find someone who is willing to take over the the line. When we attempt, T-mobile's system is all of a sudden down so we postpone it till another time. So in order to keep my phone from cutting off I suspend his line(before it was too late, so I thought), and fill my taxes early so I can pay the bill with my refund. It hurt to pay my own money but I was ready to write this off as a lesson learned. So T-mobile grants me an extension and I pay the bill. But my story gets better.

Out the blue, Mr. A-hole hits me up on yahoo messenger saying "I know you are upset with me, but the bank made an error and thats why it looks like I never paid. The bank will be refunding my money in a week and a half and I'll pay the bill." But if it was a bank error then why havent I been able to contact you over these past few days? "We'll I had to take my son to the hospital that night and he has been in ever since. I know I should've called and I'm sorry" I felt this was a crock of shyt but I tell him to just send me the money Western Union, since the bill has already been paid and once I recieve it we can put the phone in his name and then he can turn the phone back on. He agrees . So I am currently waiting on that week and a half to be up. In the meantime I get my next T-mobile bill inside of the biggest envelope I have ever seen. I died on the inside because I knew that apparently I didn't cut his line off soon enough. His new bill. ladies and gents, has topped out at an amazing $686.77!!!!!!!!!!! I happened to be on the phone with a close friend of mine who tried to console me and offer solutions while I ranted and raved about how dumb I was and how much of dickhead Mr. A-hole is. How in the hell do you go over your minutes by 1500?

I haven't spoken to this culprit yet but Igot a feeling I'm gonna be coming out of my pocket once more. After this fiasco I will be out of damn near $1000 dollars.

Well kiddies, I hope you learned your lesson because I most certainly learned mine. Im off to class and to figure out how I'm gonna get out of this one. Ill keep yall posted.

I saw the cutest guy today! Tall, gorgeous skin, and a sexy smile. I actually took a few classes with him at the university. Can't believe I never spoke with him before. He told me he was finishing his bachelor's this semester and will be in med school this fall. Hopefully we'll both attend UT Health Science Center *wink*. But I'm pretty sure there are plenty of young ladies trying to court him. A educated young handsome black man studying to be a doctor???? You could sell that on eBay and make a fortune.

SO what else is new.

I have a male friend of mine who plays basketball maybe 2 to 3 hours a day. So he is always in shape because he loves to play so much. So I thought to myself what hobby could I adopt that I enjoyed doing as well as keep me in shape....................................... After 20 minutes of deliberating I thought about this game I played a few times called Dance Dance Revolution. It was a big craze over it in Japan and here in the U.S. It's a game where you step to the beat of a song on a dance pad. The more coordinated you are the higher points you get. They game is so addictive and so action packed, that alot of people lost weight by simply playing the game for a few months.Such a fun game to play but to expensive to play since I would have to go to the arcade and constantly dump money into the machine. I saw that the game and dance pad were available on PS2 and Xbox but I own neither.  Buy It Here Then I stumbled upon a DDR dance pad that only required a T.V. to play. "ding ding ding" I'm a sucker for a good Video game and I definately could stand to lose a few lbs so I see this as a way out of this chubby cycle I been in lately.

I'm so excited!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll keep you posted on my progress.

Has it been a month already? Well Let's see. A new year means bigger and better things for me. I'm back in school for one thing. I am so excited about that. My love life is now a clean slate. No more dating "men that I can't have". Got some bills paid off which has put me closer to my dream of getting my own place. Everything thing has been going fine. I hope it stays that way. So no drama to report....at least not yet.


I am going to see Jill Scott perform at the Orpheum Theatre on Feb. 25th. Ya girl is so elated. I finally get to see her perform live. Everytime she comes, I'm always too broke to purchase a ticket. But thanks to the United States Government (Student Loan) I was able to do so this time around.

"What does it feel like to be 24?" What the hell is it supposed to feel like?!?!?! Why do people feel it necessary to ask such a stupid ass question? I feel the same as I did the year before and I'm gonna feel the same way next year. Another year closer to 30.


But I did have a good day on the 20th. Alot of people actually remembered to wish me a happy b-day and that shocked me the most. I did'nt do anything special. Went to my hair appt, went to visit my nephew at the hospital, and took my nieces to get chinese food. Thats about it. Overwhelmingly exciting, I know.

Don't you just love the fresh scent of Gain? I swear if it weren't for gain I probably wouldnt care to do laundry at all. How did they get it to smell so damn good???? The world may never know.

Saw an ole friend today. Hopefully we can get back from where we left off. If not. oh well. My current friends have enough drama forme to stick my nose in. I got one buddy who is about to leave her boyfriend of a year and a half because of his selfishness and his insecurities when it involves her and other men. But what can you say. Thats what you get from dating a thug. They always want a female to be down for them but only willing to meet her 1/3 of the way. And don't even think of looking at another guy let alone talking to him. They would cut your throat if they could. I have another friend who won't leave her ex well enough alone even though he uses her. If you walk in a man's apartment and he tells the chick on the phone with him that you're his sister, you can probably bet that you werent as important as you thought you were. Or least not important when compared to the person on the other end. DUMB BROADS. I luv em.

I love me some kuntry bois. So I had to put David on.


Its a wonderful time of the yearrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! I'm givin everyone rainchecks for xmas, and its coming from the heart!!!!!


12 days until I'm 24. What to do????? I though about going out and making my friends pay for me. You would think the birthday girl wouldn't have to pay her own way. But thats not how we roll. We're broke. But we still love each other. We know that if we had to give, we would. That's why I love my peeps.


I wish mofos would stop be invisible and sign my damn guestbook. I got over a 1000 hits so i should have over a 1000 sigs. You lazy cornbreadeatin'  bastids.


Oh my email is jbaby901@bellsouth.net to those of you who wish to send me a birthday e-card. That would be nice. Thx

Maintaining a blog is almost like I job. I should've been fired. But then I guess its more like a work at home job. I do this when I feel the desire. And right now I desire to catch y'all nosey asses up on what's been going on in my life.

FIRST, and foremost, I AM GOING BACK TO SCHOOL!!!!! Yes you heard right. Ya girl has decided to stop half assing and go to finish her education. It took me two years to learn what I really already knew. There isn't much you can do with a high school diploma nowadays. And thanks to our president's NO CHILD LEFT BEHIND act, the diploma has about as much credibility as your Cabbage Patch Kid's birth certificate. And that's real.

I am excited as hell. I miss what it meant to be a student. I miss staying up all night doing research papers and cramming for that organic chemistry exam the night before. I miss trying to find the most comfortable seat in the back row of the history class so I can catch up on those Z's I missed while I was doing the research paper. I miss going to greek parties and watching all of them do line dances and sing chants and remembering how many of them were truelly squares before they pledged. I miss hearing all the gossip, like how dude's babymomma came and acetoned his car while he was in his dorm, or about that chic and the whole football team...............Maybe that's why I didnt do well the first time around. Anywho, I'm more focused than what I used to be. And I'm not getting any younger. (I'll be 24 on Dec 20th by the way). Speaki8ng of which........................

Do you know that some of my fellow co-workers told me I was gonna miss out on life simply because I told them I wanted to wait until I graduated from college and got into my career before I started a family? Excuse me for feeling responsible for my kid's future before they got here. You know, everyone doesnt take pride in standing in line to get an EBT card because they weren't financially able to raise a family on their own. I ,personally, don't want anyone's assisitance. Excuse me for wanting a stable marriage before I have children. Excuse me if I want to have a decent roof over my head reliable transportation and money saved up for my kids education. I know a lot of single women with children and I wouldnt switch places with any of em. Not one. I see their struggle. I see them get tired and weary as the burdens of single parenthood weighs down on them. I see them aging twice as fast as they should because majority of the time they are stressed. And if that means Im going die and old maid with no kids and a dry shriveled up twat then SO BE IT.

Not to offend any single mother with kids. Yall got it rough, and you couldn't convince me otherwise. I admire y'all for handling things, but my name is not Neo. I am not the ONE.

Woa is me.....................................Ok Im not feelin that bad. Other Bush gettin back in office everything has been cool. Can't complain or at least I shouldn't. I know there are people who would pray to be in my shoes so that is what keeps me going. Bloggin is hard. I coldnt possibly post something every other day so I'm going for once a month. Hope it hasnt been too long for ya.

  U ever experience momentary bliss? That feeling that u get right after u discover that 20 dollar bill left in your coat pocket now that you're down to your last dime. When u get your period a few weeks after that lustful energetic evening when u had to figure out where the condom went. That feeling when u get when you're pulled over and the nice officer decided to give u a warning instead. Moments like that should last forever.